A growing narrative claims that men are happier single. The argument is familiar: no pressure, no responsibility, no emotional stress. More money, more freedom, and more peace. On the surface, it is easy to understand why this message resonates. Modern dating can feel exhausting. It can be confusing, disappointing, and risky. Many men have experienced…
Sixty six percent of young men are single. When you hear that number, it is easy to start filling in the blanks. Something must be broken. Something must be unfair. Something must be working against young men. But before we jump to conclusions, we need to slow down and understand what is actually happening. The…
I became a father not long ago. My daughter is still young, but I already find myself thinking deeply about the world she will grow up in. One day she’ll work alongside men, befriend them, marry one if she chooses, and help build a family and community with them. That reality changes how I view…
Spend enough time talking to men, really listening, and you start to notice something unsettling. It’s not that they’re lazy. It’s not that they don’t care. It’s that they’re trying, and nothing seems to be working. The same day repeats over and over again, and after a while, something inside them starts to shut off….
I made a mistake about Jesus and honestly I’m not proud of it. But I think a lot of men watching this right now are making that exact same mistake. It’s not the mistake of rejecting Jesus. It’s the mistake of almost getting him right. Despite being a Christian all my life, I spent years…
I’ve crossed the Ironman finish line five times. A 3.8 km swim, a 180 km bike ride, and a 42.2 km marathon run immediately afterward, all back-to-back. Through the ups and downs of race day, I’ve learned one important thing: no matter what, at the end of the day, it’s just God and you. Over…
Thirteen episodes in. One season done. When I started this channel, I had no idea where it was going to go. I didn’t know where it would end up. But here we are. If you’ve been here since Episode 1, thank you. If you’re new here, stick around. Today, I want to talk about what…
There’s a narrative floating around online right now that says men are done with friendships. Done trusting. Done investing. Done putting themselves out there. The argument goes like this: you help someone, they betray you. You stick your neck out, they cut it. Integrity is rare. Society rewards degeneracy. So the solution is simple: withdraw….
A recent news article out of Ontario stopped me in my tracks. Young men are contacting gambling helplines at rates more than 300% higher than before Ontario’s online gambling market expanded. That’s not just an alarming statistic — it’s a warning sign. Online gambling has quietly become one of the most accessible addictions in modern…
We have the group chats, the casual hangouts, and the Sunday morning handshakes… but most men are still completely alone. We’re doing life near each other, but we aren’t doing life with each other. Out on a walk today with the baby and the dogs, talking about the quiet crisis facing Christian men right now,…
There’s a lie floating around modern culture that says: porn is normal, inevitable, and harmless. And if you’re a man, especially a young man, you’ve heard it your entire life. “It’s just what guys do.” But normal DOES NOT mean healthy. Fast food is normal. Debt is normal. Divorce is normal. Normal isn’t the standard….
It’s early. Garage is cold. Baby monitor’s on the shelf over there. Jenna’s inside with our daughter. I’ve got about 35 minutes before I swap back in and we do the morning handoff. Three months into paternity leave now… and my training volume is way down. No five,hour rides. No double sessions. No Ironman build….