There’s a lie floating around modern culture that says: porn is normal, inevitable, and harmless. And if you’re a man, especially a young man, you’ve heard it your entire life. “It’s just what guys do.” But normal DOES NOT mean healthy. Fast food is normal. Debt is normal. Divorce is normal. Normal isn’t the standard….
It’s early. Garage is cold. Baby monitor’s on the shelf over there. Jenna’s inside with our daughter. I’ve got about 35 minutes before I swap back in and we do the morning handoff. Three months into paternity leave now… and my training volume is way down. No five,hour rides. No double sessions. No Ironman build….
There’s a growing message online right now telling men that the game is rigged. That women are hypergamous by nature. That only the top ten or twenty percent of men get chosen. That if you’re not high status, high income, six foot something, ripped, and wealthy … you’re invisible. So the solution? Opt out. Focus…
There’s this narrative online right now that if you’re not in the top 20% of earners, if you’re not six foot two, jacked, making six figures, driving something expensive… then you’re invisible. That women only want “high value men.” Status. Money. Power. But when I’m training like this … steady, controlled, disciplined … I’m reminded…
I’m three months into a fourteen month paternity leave right now. Not finished. Not looking back nostalgically. I’m in it. And honestly, it’s going really well. There’s a story in our culture that says a man’s value is tied almost entirely to production. Work hard. Earn more. Climb higher. Provide financially. And don’t let family…
I’ve been seeing a lot of guys online saying there’s no point in building a family anymore. The economy’s bad. AI’s taking jobs. Divorce courts are stacked. And honestly… I get why it feels that way. But here’s what I’ve been thinking lately…If men stop building, stop marrying, stop having kids…what exactly are we fighting…
I’ve been thinking about something that sounds controversial… I love my daughter more than anything. But I don’t believe she comes first in my life. My wife does. And if that sounds wrong… I get it. But there’s a reason for it.” There’s something that sounds almost wrong when you first hear it. Your wife…
Netflix just told 100 million men… that you’re the problem. But here’s what nobody’s asking… Why are so many men struggling in the first place? And why are millions of guys running to the exact influencers this documentary is trying to expose? Because if you don’t answer that… you don’t fix anything. Let’s be honest….
There is a growing narrative in our generation that says Christians should reconsider having children. The arguments often sound reasonable. The economy feels unstable. Divorce rates are real. Cultural confusion around identity, morality, and truth is everywhere. Social systems feel fragile. Many young men in particular look at family court statistics, financial pressure, and societal…
Let’s start here. Marriage was not created by culture. It wasn’t created by the state. It wasn’t created by modern romance. It was instituted by God. In Genesis 2:24, it says: “This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one. That’s not…
Becoming a new father changes everything. In this episode I reflect on Ironman training, endurance, and why fatherhood is the most meaningful challenge of my life. This channel is about faith, marriage, fatherhood, discipline, and building a meaningful life in a chaotic world. Ironman was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. Fatherhood is…